The vibe fell somewhere between a support group and an extreme sport.
This researcher thinks you can form compelling bonds in no time by skipping straight to the deep questions.

Additionally, https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html “The 36 questions that lead to love” Quite an interesting topic to research, actually. Forming bonds by talking about deep topics while skipping over the formalities – is it deep topics -> attachment because attachment -> deep topics?