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24 Jan 2017

Nice to meet you. Now cut the small talk.

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    Title: Nice to meet you. Now cut the small talk.
    Link: https://theoutline.com/post/937/strangers-deep-conversation-skip-the-small-talk

    The vibe fell somewhere between a support group and an extreme sport.
    This researcher thinks you can form compelling bonds in no time by skipping straight to the deep questions.

    Additionally, https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html “The 36 questions that lead to love” Quite an interesting topic to research, actually. Forming bonds by talking about deep topics while skipping over the formalities – is it deep topics -> attachment because attachment -> deep topics?